When Dad Hurts Mom Helping Your Children Heal the Wounds of Witnessing Abuse (Audible Audio Edition) Lundy Bancroft Randye Kaye Tantor Audio Books
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Can my partner abuse me and still be a good parent? Should I stay with my partner for my children's sake? How should I talk to my children about the abuse and help them heal? Am I a bad mother?
Mothers in physically or emotionally abusive relationships ask themselves these questions every day. Whether it's physical or "just" emotional abuse, whether it's aimed at them or you, whether they see or hear it, your kids need you.
This book, the first ever of its kind, shows mothers how to
- Protect children and help them heal emotionally
- Provide love, support, and positive role models, even in the midst of abuse
- Increase their chances of winning custody
- Help their kids feel good about themselves
When Dad Hurts Mom Helping Your Children Heal the Wounds of Witnessing Abuse (Audible Audio Edition) Lundy Bancroft Randye Kaye Tantor Audio Books
He has more experience in dealing with abusers, their victims, and the collateral damage than basically anyone else. He communicates his ideas and facts clearly and succinctly, with the precise amount of detail necessary.I was reading this book recently and my 8yo son glanced at a couple of paragraphs over my shoulder and said, "This is about my dad, isn't it?" The style is direct enough for him to recognize what it was for, and it turned out to be incredibly helpful for both of us to recover from years of verbal abuse and manipulation. I heartily recommend reading this book as a companion volume to Why Does He Do That, also by Lundy Bancroft. They make for extremely illuminating and cathartic reading, and serve as wonderful and necessary reminders that the victims are just that -- the abusers make the conscious choices that shape the relationship in a negative way.
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When Dad Hurts Mom Helping Your Children Heal the Wounds of Witnessing Abuse (Audible Audio Edition) Lundy Bancroft Randye Kaye Tantor Audio Books Reviews
Excellent book. Lundy speaks from experience and gives specific suggestions to help children heal. His writing is straightforward, reading as if he's sitting across the room. This book is a must read for parents, families, friends and professionals who work with children on any level. I highly recommend his other book, "Why Does He Do That?" either before this one or along with it, although it can stand alone, it furthers ideas and suggestions for women who have been with an abuser.
A must read for a mom who is a victim of domestic violence. Whether you want to believe it or not, your kids have been affected by the violence you have experienced. Gives helpful tools to help you help your kids heal. Awesome!
Not just for mom. This book is great for family members and adult friends in the dynamics of day to day. Gets clogged at times with stories of others. Keep notes for points to share and reminders. Get some stickies to flag pages of interest. Dad doesn't hurt just mom he garners the attention of others who love mom and the kids so much more than he ever will.
Lundy Bancroft has such amazing insight into abusive situations. His books are so empowering to women who are trying to make sense of the chaos going on around them that is created by the abusive partner. He covers every aspect of the situation in so much detail that all of your questions are answered, you come away with a clear understanding of what is happening and what you can do to change things. This book is ideal for helping women with children in (or previously in) an abusive relationship gain clarity and insight, gather some direction and form a plan, and most of all, know where hope lies and how they might move toward it and away from the abuse. This and "Why Does He Do That" have given me more strength to leave and make necessary changes in my life, for me and my daughter, than any other single source.
Thank you Mr. Bancroft for writing this book. This is incredibly helpful. I have now quoted it many times, too. If you are looking for a resource to raise your children you share with your abuser, you will find this book very helpful. You are not alone. He can help you. If you are judge, lawyer, parent coordinator, GAL... PLEASE read this book to learn how domestic abuse hurts children, even if they don't get hit. We have an epidemic in this country that needs to be stopped. This book and your other books are truly the help that I needed!! I will continue to share your work when ever I speak to groups about abuse, write about it, or need to co-parent with my abuser. Thank you.
This is one of my first Lundy Bancroft books and I found it to be so helpful. I have a young child with an abusive partner and was looking for some guidance in how to raise him and help him get past the trauma of living with an abuser. This book put some of his behaviors in perspective, and is also reassuring and caring of what mothers are going through in this situation (rather than re-victimizing the abuse survivor as tends to happen over in over in court proceedings). It focuses as much if not more on verbal, emotional abuse as it does physical, which is helpful when so many people don't seem to get that just because someone doesn't beat you or your children doesn't mean they aren't doing immeasurable harm. The only negative I would say is I was looking for more information/guidance on what to do when the abuser is also abusing the children, or has abused the children, and they are still forced to spend time with the abusive parent. But this book focuses on the children "witnessing" abuse, not being abused themselves. I didn't take off any stars for that because the title is very clear that this book is about the abuse of the mother, and he does say that abusers who abuse their spouse typically do abuse the children too. I just wish he would have gone more into that aspect. Maybe that's in another of his books, I will certainly be reading more of them. This was a great first step for me, I'm so thankful to have found this book. Gave great advice on how to discuss the abuser and abuse with your children, without badmouthing the other parent or even directly discussing him (and therefore risking being accused of parental alienation). If you are a parent who lives with or has left an abusive partner, you need to read this book. If you are a mental health care practitioner, a divorce lawyer, a guardian ad litem, a family court judge - you need to read this book.
He has more experience in dealing with abusers, their victims, and the collateral damage than basically anyone else. He communicates his ideas and facts clearly and succinctly, with the precise amount of detail necessary.
I was reading this book recently and my 8yo son glanced at a couple of paragraphs over my shoulder and said, "This is about my dad, isn't it?" The style is direct enough for him to recognize what it was for, and it turned out to be incredibly helpful for both of us to recover from years of verbal abuse and manipulation. I heartily recommend reading this book as a companion volume to Why Does He Do That, also by Lundy Bancroft. They make for extremely illuminating and cathartic reading, and serve as wonderful and necessary reminders that the victims are just that -- the abusers make the conscious choices that shape the relationship in a negative way.
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